All training in spiritual life begins with this attitude of manliness; not hanging on to an external God for everything, like the baby hangingon to its mother all the time. Such a baby will ever remain only a baby. It won't grow. Similarly, the spiritual baby also can grow only when it understands this great message of Self-reliance- ATMA-SRADHA and ATMA-NIRBHARATA - and develops its physical muscles of body, mental muscles of intelligence and will, and emotional muscles of feeling.